Monday, December 31, 2007

”Two Magic Bullets To Successfully Transition Your Conversations With Women”

Hey there! When I first started out as a newbie in dating I would always run out of things to say. This drove me nuts because I could always sense that the women I talked to were growing more uncomfortable by the second, at my lack of congruence. My main problem like most guys was that I could open up a conversation with the girl successfully but later find myself locked in a stalemate. Back then, there weren't alot of guides on how to correctly approach a woman from start to finish. More recently, I came across a product that deals with this issue specifically:


What are Transitional magic bullets?:These are tools used to bridge the gap between the opening and attraction phases of a conversations with women. To begin attraction, your conversation with a woman and /or her social circle must have reached the point where you have the freedom to discuss a variety of topics and express emotion. We call this sort of interaction a normal conversation. Once you are able to start a normal conversation, the transition phase of the interaction is complete. Generally, the lower risk/reward profile of the a way of opening up the conversation with your targets) you use the more work you will have to do in the transition.

"1) Content Transitions:These kind of magic bullet transitions use her/ or her group’s response to your opener to reframe (change the subject into a new conversation). On the other hand, if you were to use the “Hey, I have this friend named Joey who just broke up with his girlfriend and wants to date one of her friends” opener, She might mention that her best friend back home in Los Angeles had recently been in a similar situation (this is a sign of interest because she could have simply chosen to end the conversation right there).If you’re sharp, you might see an instant content transition opportunity here, and interrupt her by confirming that the girl his friend wants is from L.A. too. When she tells you that she is, you can roll out an L.A.-related anecdote. It doesn’t even have to be long, but it must be interesting enough that she pursues the new conversational thread instead of the one about Joey. Going back to talking about Joey is going back to the opener. "

"2) Phrasal Transitions:Actually these are crutches without transitions. The crutch is that you say something to connect your opener to your piece of Attraction material like:

-that reminds me of…
-that’s just like when…
-Yeah, that’s crazy, because… "

These magic bullet transitions can be even be used if there aren’t any connection between the subject of your opener(s) and what you’re about to say next (which will be in the Attraction phase). Most of the time there won’t be. In short, the advice above is less than 10% of a model provided by the complete Magic Bullets. All of this is great because it sub communicates higher value to the women that you’ll talk to. And, the frame that is being set is of you being the selector and leading the interaction. Awesome. Again, with the mastery of these fundamentals you will no longer be stuck inside your head scrambling for a way to drive interactions with females forward. Click here to learn more. The act of scrambling for things to say subcommunicates to the women that you are needy and will repel them.

Saturday, December 29, 2007

Amidst the dawn of a new beginning

What's up guys?

Hey, its chris here for the first blog post...It's that time of the year again...Iam currently at home with my family enjoying my winter break before I head back to college. I will make more posts shortly, take care!